Yes, I know he's OCD, depressive and agoraphobic - but I'm trying to keep this information OUT of my public journal. He's having a lot of help from the psychiatric doc, social worker, behavioural therapist etc etc etc now - but I don't want to go into detail in non-friends only posts. I'll do a proper post explaining the full situation of my last ten years of our relationship and the last twelve years of living with him when I've moved out and have brain-space to look at it objectively.
At the moment, I'm going along, moving out because I've been trying to get him to move out for the past two years, this hasn't happened and I can't afford to support him anymore. It's forced the issue with the crappy NHS mental health care so that they're actually helping him now rather than piling it all on to me - sorting out the situation I'm leaving him with and changing his meds so he's a bit more positive.
Btw, you can comment here: this is filtered and won't be read:/